Seth and I were having a funny conversation yesterday. We were talking about how when were are telling someone how much longer we will be I always say a little longer than I think I will be and he always says shorter. When discussing why we do this he explained that he gives a shorter time frame so who ever he is talking to gets excited that he will be there so soon...even though I told him when he does that to me I get frustrated because he's never there when he says he will be When I explained why I say longer it's because I like to be there earlier and have the person/people get excited that i didn't take so long even if at first they were frustrated because they thought it would take longer. (Have I lost you yet?) So we decided that he is Optimistically Pessimistic and I am pessimistically optimistic.
Just to give some examples to help you see where I am coming from...I see an old woman, not the young beautiful one. Wouldn't you want to be and old, wise woman, how had lived her life anyway.

Do you see two faces? No, I see a vase. Why because vases get dusty. Wow, that sounds pessimistic, no, it's not. I love to clean.

Now look at this one. Many see a man in his boat, but i see a bird eatting a man. How sad you say. She is SO pessimistic. No, how nice that the bird got something to eat and is no longer hungry.

Do you see what I mean. It's all about how you look at things! Pessimistically optimistic. That's me!